Years In The Making & Right On Time
This morning is more than you will imagine; the way YOU affect me who affects the Cottonwoods and their canopy of shade-giving, life-dwelling branches, harboring Those who head out into the two Fields each day, which are the ground, the floor, the solace of green expanse for the grieving Hawk whose piercing cry affects the Elkhound who affects Me who affects You, and that’s just the small story. There is so, so, so much more. But essentially, we are talking about Love. Today a dear colleague, Ren Usha, and I are launching a one-day Beta run of a course that has been in my desire, on my map, since I was 16. Practically, it has been marinating in the field of off-the-map, would-anyone-ever-do-that? could-anyone-ever-do-that?! WHY-aren’t-we-doing-this?? awareness for 15 years. This course aims to affect men with the beauty of true female sexuality, in its raw, unadorned, intelligent, permission-given, desire-claimed, love-unhinged, everything-that-is-true-is-beautiful expression. We will be with the men, making so much room for what is living in them: what was living in them at first, before anyone told them about themselves before asking them about themselves, then what began living in them that wasn’t theirs, what is true about their fear, their longing, their anger and even rage, their courage, their self-loathing and self-love, their misunderstanding about our bodies and what to do with them because how could you possibly be expected to know anything between the shame you were fed, the porn that was the only place for you to learn (unless you went to a westernized tantra class where you learned to breath and feminize yourself and then god help you!), and the fact that most of us women don’t know about our own anatomy nor do we know what we look like, and therefore we don’t want you to look at us, really look at us...
We will invite the men to truly be with us as we ‘teach from the table’, modeling honest arousal facilitated by extremely intelligent, reverent, strong touch. Woman to woman. Women teaching men how to touch women’s bodies then inviting the men to touch. We will show these courageous men how magnificent and all-encompassing the clitoris is. We will invite them to really look at what a truly aroused, engorged i.e., ready for intercourse (and not a moment sooner) vulva looks like. We will have them stand in their own utterly unique and no-doubt aroused and therefore probably extremely uncomfortable experience as we enter the church of a woman’s unfettered ecstasy, orgasm, tears and laughter, the flushing chest and sweaty armpits, the “no, no no!” “yes, yes, yes!!” And then, we will invite them all to have a sip of water, move in closer and ask the straight-up questions, the ones they’ve forgotten they even have because they can’t find anyone who will answer them, not even their girlfriends because once we become the girlfriend we’ve got too much skin in the game and the truth just won’t do.
We will do this with the help of an outrageous Women’s Temple team who are learning with us, and each other, the Old World art of being ‘sexual adepts’; women who are woman-identified and male-adoring, who are in love with their bodies, who are actively freeing themselves of the projective shame we are offered culturally, who have learned the approach and arc of their own pleasure, how to ride it to culmination but also how to extend and extend and extend some more, the ride. Women who are deeply compassionate, patient and invested in the creation of a world in which all humans are erotically intelligent, awake, in-the-house, engaged, sovereign beings. Women who behave as if the world, as we know and love it, depends on human-beings who are erotically intelligent, awake, in-the-house, engaged, sovereign beings. Because it does.